If I were asked to give what I consider the single most useful bit of advice for all humanity, it would be this: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life, and when it comes, hold your head high. Look it squarely in the eye, and say, "I will be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me.
The decisions you make can turn everything upside down....or can turn everything rightside up!
How can you tell? A decision can be exciting, it can difficult, and it could also be very scary! Maybe I am scared, or maybe excited, I just don't know.